How to Have “The Talk” This Election Season

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A critical election is approaching and there’s a good chance you’ll cross paths with people who have opposing views on a college campus. Even though it’s tempting, don’t run away from what you fear will be an awkward, tense conversation. Let’s talk about how to have productive political discourse with your classmates, roommates, and friends of friends from across the country.

The most important thing to remember while you’re having these conversations is knowing what you’re talking about and knowing when to admit that you lack the proper knowledge to continue. If you’re heading into battle, you better have your weapons ready. Staying educated and informed is the only way your arguments are going to remain valid. There are no excuses for not knowing information anymore—we know you’re on your phone 24/7 and have a constant influx of information and news alerts throughout the day. 

With that being said, you might be wondering what media and news outlets you should specifically look into, and the answer is everything. Pay attention to every source and perspective. One won’t make sense without the other.

Another good thing to keep in mind is that everyone has a reason for believing in their side of the argument. Try to look for ways in which you agree with the person you’re talking to. Finding out their motives may end up bolstering your argument even further, but it also may make the conversation neutral and intellectual rather than just an argument.

That being said, sometimes, at the end of the day, there are people who just won’t budge. Some people just really like to argue and it shows. If you think you’re entering a conversation where the person has no intention of learning or listening to your perspective, they’re probably not worth losing your cool over. Let’s be honest, I think we’ve all stormed out of a party alone crying over the frustration of getting nowhere in a heated debate, and honestly, it’s just not worth it. 

Know your audience, and don’t overexert yourself for people who never cared about what you had to say in the first place. We’re so lucky to be experiencing this particular election on a college campus, so take advantage of this time, listen to others, and VOTE.