Sex Toys That Help Breach The Orgasm Gap

It's 3 am and you're making awkward post-coitus small talk while hoping the sheets you're laying on aren't as dirty as they seem when the inevitable happens and you're asked "Did you come babe?" In a perfect world, the answer to that question would almost always be "Yes!", exclamation point included. However, our world is one where misogyny makes its way into even our bedrooms, and one where only 65 percent of straight women say they orgasm almost always during sexual encounters compared to 95 percent of straight men, according to a 2017 study. The results are not pleasant—but are far from surprising. After all, who here hasn't heard of the "mystical female orgasm" trope. It's as if we're supposed to believe we are not supposed to orgasm, and it is a miracle if we do.

Well, I call bullshit. And before the gentleman in the back even start, according to the same study 86 percent of lesbian women said they usually or always experience orgasms. So yes fellas, it really is you. Luckily, even though the mainstream media strays from the topic, the sex toy industry doesn't. There are countless products designed to help not just acknowledge the orgasm gap but to also help breach it.

Eva

If a sex toy could be woke, it would probably be Eva as Dame Products designed it with the orgasm gap in mind. This one of its kind vibrator is completely hands free. All you need to do is tuck its "wings" under your labia majora, and enjoy yourself. It might look underwhelming but once you give it a try you will see that in some cases size really does not matter.

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We-Vibe Touch

Let's be honest, your clit deserves the best and We-Vibe Touch knows it. It is made with solo use in mind, but it's design makes it easy for you or your partner to hold it against your clit during penetrative sex. We-Vibe's rounded tip applies direct stimulation wherever you apply it, whether it be your nipples or your clit. It also has eight settings to make sure you find what you like.

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Mutual Climax Condoms

When it comes to orgasms, Durex knows what’s up. That’s why they designed condoms that make sure that both partners are not just safe but are also coming in the end. These specific set of condoms have ribs and dots to increase stimulation, and lubricant to delay ejaculation.

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We-Vibe 4 Plus

There are so many great things about We-Vibe 4 Plus. It comes with both a G-spot and clitoral stimulator that you can use to achieve maximum pleasure. It's design makes it perfect for couples use, but there is more. As it comes with a wireless remote and an app, your partner can turn it on and from a different room and really spice things up.

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Doc Johnson iVibe

This is probably not the kind of wand you used to play Harry Potter when you were a kid. However, this one really makes magic happen. The long reach of the wand makes it easy to use during sex, and it also warms up, making for the perfect sensation.

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